FRIDAY, June 10 (HealthDay News) -- Could a healthy
psychological outlook be tied to better sex?
That's the finding from a new study comparing the psychological
profiles of young adults against their reports of satisfaction in
the bedroom.
Researchers from Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public
Health, Baltimore, studied data from more than 3,200 men and women
ages 18 to 26, analyzing the association between self-esteem,
autonomy and empathy and three measures of sexual pleasure among
those in established heterosexual relationships of longer than
three months.
The three measures of sexual enjoyment evaluated included orgasm
regularity and the enjoyment of receiving and giving oral sex.
Empathy -- defined as the ability to "take [the] other's
perspective" -- was tied to sexual pleasure for both young men and
women.
For women, empathy, autonomy ("having the strength to follow
personal convictions") and self-esteem all seemed to contribute to
pleasure.
"I think the most important point is the association between empathy and sexual enjoyment and that it was consistent across the board between men and women," said study co-author Adena Galinsky, a doctoral student at Bloomberg School's Center for Adolescent Health.
Men and women differed in their level of sexual enjoyment. Young
men reported the highest level of all three types of sexual
enjoyment, with nearly nine of 10 saying they achieved orgasm most
or all of the time, compared to fewer than half of young women.
Galinsky said she wasn't surprised by that result, but did find
it interesting that young men were more likely than young women to
say they enjoyed giving oral sex to their partners, which breaks
the stereotype that males are more concerned with their own sexual
pleasure.
Due to a computer programming error, the researchers didn't have
access to full data on the enjoyment of vaginal sex.
The authors write that empathy may be key to sexual enjoyment
because "it may increase motivation to give sexual (and other kinds
of) pleasure to the partner." A person who is empathic with his or
her partner can enjoy the other's pleasure "vicariously," as well,
they reasoned.
While men seemed to require empathy alone to boost sexual
satisfaction, women may need self-esteem and autonomy as well
because of social norms related to sexuality, Galinsky said.
"Research shows higher barriers for women in knowing and saying what they want," she explained. "It may be more important for them to overcome those barriers, where for men those impediments weren't there."
Sexual pleasure was not associated with age, race or ethnicity
or social/economic status, the researchers found.
The study, funded by the U.S. National Institute of Mental
Health, was the first to use a representative sample of
heterosexuals to find a relationship between key developmental
assets and sexual pleasure, the study authors said. The data were
extracted from the U.S. National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent
Health.
Charles and Amy Miron, married sex educators and certified sex
therapists in Baltimore, said they were pleased to see a study
address sexual pleasure in a young population, noting that the
subject is generally ignored.
"I think the emphasis shifting to sexual pleasure . . . and moving away from the 'thou shalt not' model of thinking is a very positive move," said Charles Miron, who co-authored How to Talk with Teens About Love, Relationships &
S-E-X with his wife.
Amy Miron agreed that the study reinforces "that especially for
a woman to be sexually active in our society, she needs to be
autonomous. She needs to have a good sense of self."
More information
There's more on young adult sexuality at the
Kaiser Family Foundation.